Wednesday, July 2, 2008 

Rid Yourself Of Approach Anxiety By Detaching Yourself From The Outcome - Part Two

This is "Part Two" of a series in which you can get rid of AA by detachment of the outcome.

Women will just naturally feel awkward with you when you approach them at the wrong time or the wrong place, so you must start realizing that right now.

Those are the harsh realities of this seduction game, and it's a lot better to recognize this fact and start to learn how to detach yourself from EVERY future outcome no matter how successful or unsuccessful the approach/conversation/close happens to be right now, before progressing any further in this book.

Detaching yourself from all outcomes means being able to examine what you did right or wrong with every interaction with a girl almost like you're a scientist trying to experiment with nuclear fusion principles. You have to use specific analytic techniques to determine the correct way to open and close women that specifically adheres to your own personality.

Every guy that starts out trying to become a real seducer of women will fail MUCH more than he succeeds, I don't care how much studying you have done of seduction techniques. That's just the way it is.

So starting right now, write down what you think you did right with an interaction you had just recently and what you did wrong during this interaction and study it. Then focus on ways of turning her negative reactions to you into positive ones.

Repeat this process with future girls you will be interacting with and you will be much less emotionally attached to these girl's reactions to you every step of the way. DETACH DETACH DETACH!!!!!

USE THE ANALYTICAL APPROACH DO DETERMINE YOUR FLAWS

Even if you have to think of yourself as a clinical doctor who is trying to figure out scientifically why you have this high degree of approach anxiety, try using that approach as well.

The next time you have an interaction with a girl you are genuinely attracted to, write down those right and wrong things you did with her, as I mentioned earlier, and analyze the exact reasons you believe you said or did the things that benefited you most with this one girl.

Then you can figure out ways to expand on those positive mannerisms you projected to her or you can come up with new openers that are more along the lines of the remarks you used on her that made her light up with interest in you.

When you can start to see yourself "outside" of your own body, you can then really start analyzing your positive traits and your approach anxiety will fall by the wayside a lot quicker than you would think.

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